I am so glad to tell you how much more connected I feel with my daughter and my husband.  Bed time was a stressful job to do as my daughter seemed to not be able to stay on her own in bed.  After reading the centre and connect unit I realized that my daughter felt my stress rising during bed time although I was there telling stories and singing to her.  As she was asking for water, pee, one more song etc my presence was there but my voice was harsh and my body was tense.  Now I really feel that we connect on a different level and she is more than happy to stay in bed without my presence.  She hasn’t cried or asked for me to be in the room ever since I started doing that and I want to thank you from the bottom of my heart for uplifting me and telling me that I do a great job.  Now she is saying ’yes mommy’ to all of my solutions of the issues we go through, which is odd and funny at the same time.