I realised something wonderful tonight and wanted to share it, and also say thankyou. My 55 week old baby is learning to ‘self settle’. She has been bf on demand and bed sharing the whole way through, and always fed to sleep, but she has started dropping off and crawling around a but before she goes to sleep. At first (last week) I though maybe she needed my help with pats/stroking only it woke her up! Tonight she had a 10min feed, a bit of a wiggle, then she was out, no tears, third night in a row. I am so happy 🙂 Genevieve, so many times your messages have helped me keep faith that this would work, and you were right. Thankyou!